Dr.
K. F. Ashanti
BLACK MAN AND WHITE WOMAN :
YOU MADE HIM DO IT.
Would you like to know why so many Abrothers@ (poor
thing) date or marry white women? Why
do you become angry? Why does it seem
that females and males are putting each other down? Why is it so difficult to for you to have a quality steady
companion? The answers to these
questions will be found in this article.
In fact, you just may find answers to questions you didn=t ask. You may not like what you find, but it has
been said that Athe truth shall set you free@. You are innocent, as long as you
are not aware, but you are guilty as sin once your eyes have been opened.
To understand the present and plan for the future, it
is necessary to know the past. In the
Akan language of Ghana, West Africa, the term Asankofa@ embraces this
process of looking back and undoing mistakes.
In the spirit of sankofa, let=s undo the mistakes we made as a result of
our brainwashing. I have revealed the
techniques to doing this in my book the Psychotechnology of Brainwashing:
Crucifying Willie Lynch. You can not get rid of this negative brainwashing in
white supremacy, and undo your mistakes without the proper knowledge and
training. I identified 16 summary steps of what constituted our brainwashing
process.
Stage 8, Identification with white standards of
beauty and physical features,
became the foundation for many blacks (male and female) to want to date
and even merry a white person.
Whiteness experienced by the black partner, is desired first, and love
is too often experienced secondly. On
the other hand, blackness and sex experienced by the white partner is desired
first, and spiritual love is also too often not experienced at all. Too many
blacks confuse sex with white people with love. They are not the same things.
Why even white slave masters and white racist (KKK) loved to have sex with our
black ancestors, while working them to death, and killing them.
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They still do. Where do you think the census term
multi-racial came from? It came from the past forced sex and rape of our
people, for the most part.
The standards for physical beauty, among many blacks,
are based on white culture. The Abreaking process@ of the African
woman, by the Psychotechnology of Brainwashing produced the
modern day Aimitation white@ black female. Among the visible characteristics most desired of females by
too many black males are unnaturally long, straight, silky hair (any color),
and light skin, keen nose, and thin lips.
Most black females go wild over Agood hair@, by this I mean curly
or straight (more like white females).
Keen nose, thin lips, and skin color are generally not that
critical. These selected qualities are
the Anormal@characteristics seen in models in black magazines and videos. Here is a simple test to prove my
point. Turn the pages of any magazine
and look at the pictures of black models, see how many look or dresses like an African woman.
In fact, it is not often in the general society to see many females, regardless
of skin color, looking and dressing in unrevealing clothes, like an African
woman. You may be
surprised that many black males think that all black women are born with
straight hair. They think that women go
to the beauty shop to get their hair Afixed@ because it was broken.
One of the most psychological damaging blows to little
black girls self-concepts are to be told directly or non-verbally, by their own
mother, that their pretty African natural hair is hard to manage and ugly. The psychological
germ dictates that mothers transform their daughters (without orders from
whites) into Aimitation looking@ white girls. They are told to be on guard to
avoid the horror of being caught out in the rain, because it makes the hair go
backC to Africa. Most black females have never shown their males the real thingCbeauty
in African form. African American
females, with this new understanding, should therefore not be surprised,
angry, upset or feel rejected when their males seek the Areal thing@, white
women, instead of Aimitation white@ black women. Now, you know that we black people
dislike anything fake B we prefer the real thing. African American women, without roots in their natural African
culture, are like beautiful cut flowers in a vase. These flowers are pretty and sweet smelling for only a few day,
then they become weak and ugly, die and stink. They have become the Aimitation@ and don=t even
know it. It is like being remade into a
Negro from an African. Flowers that are attached to their own bushes and
roots lives long and returns
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every year. An
African cultural root is essential and necessary for black people for good
relationships, happiness, and success.
Black men who insist on having Aimitation white@ black women are
unknowingly guilty of practicing white supremacy on their own women. They are closet psychological racist
toward African women, and don=t know it. This is the power of brainwashing.
Within each nation of people, that has power and wealth, the women practice
their own racial or ethnic culture, as well as, standards of beauty. Their men are very protective of and
providers for these women. Those that
are weak, dependent, and defined by other races, do not. Get with the program black women and your
men will surly follow. They will
run over each other trying to get to you and not AMiss Daisy@. True African men always prefer real African
women. Relearn what a true beautiful
African women looks like; look at Erika Badu and Assata Shakur. It is
very difficult to find an African looking female in black oriented magazines,
movies, and television shows. Show your man the real prize, he will come to
prefer the real thing Ban African woman.
Sankofa!
Dr. Kwabena
F. Ashanti is the author of Psychotechnology of Brainwashing: Crucifying
Willie Lynch, and Africentric Weddings and Ceremonies.
For more learning, he can be reached at WWW. AshantiTone.com